Are guys really that shallow?

wow, great read but to answer your question I really don't know if any of us girls will ever find the perfect man its pretty much impossible but the old saying you gotta kiss alot of frogs to find your prince comes to mind. But I like the idea of you working out your self esteem to find a nice guy is a great idea and I too seen girls with low self esteem in train wreck relationships but good luck to you if you can do it then the rest of the single ladies have a chance too.